Holly Doering Atkins

Peoria, IL

"I was sad to see this online and I send my love to your family. I knew Jerry when the family lived in Peoria and I have never forgotten my friend Lisa. I have not been good about staying in touch through these years but I have fond memories on the Manheim family and I loved being in their home. They always showed me warm hospitality and loved to get to know Lisa's friends. I remember our visits to Long Beach and I was always impressed with Jerry's love of education and his hardy laugh. The love he had for his family was always known to be even as a young teenager. We value those virtues as we age, as least I do. Lisa if you read this do reach out as I would love to catch up with some 40 more years of life. I send to you my love as you say good bye to your Dad and my love to your mom. I watched your video and was so very touched. Love your family.
Holly"

April 15, 2019

Nora

Childhood Friend

"My siblings and I are so shocked to hear now in January of Jerry's October death, and we are all filled with such sadness for your terrible loss, and so many memories of Jerry's beautiful years with wonderful Sylvia and the amazingly talented Manheim kids, and Jerry's years of closeness with our beloved mom, Iris. Farewell, dear Jerry, and we send our infinite empathy for the family's truly immeasurable loss. I just viewed your incredible video montage, and hearing the Phil Ochs song at the end just broke my heart. All my love & deepest sympathy,
Nora"

January 27, 2012

Ed Howard

Sacramento, CA

"For nearly 25 years the Manheim clan has been offering me love, friendship, laughs, and encouragement. I value you all and love Jerry and Sylvia more than you know. There is a reason my kids, first thing in the morning in Skamania, always wanted to go to Jerry and Sylvia's. Children know things.
From Dina, Noah, and Maya, all our love. All of it."

November 16, 2011

Michael Levine

Los Angeles, CA

"Jerry was my favorite virtual pen pal. I have a treasure trove of math puzzles, political screeds, and bad jokes going back nearly a decade. When he didn't write back the last couple of times I thought he was saving it up for masterpiece involving Let's Make A Deal percentages, Occupy Wall Street, and a blond. I will sorely miss him."

November 15, 2011

Beryl Anderton

Southport, England

"I remember my happy times spent visiting with Jerry and Sylvia in Oregon, and I remember he took me to visit the sherif office there, which was an experience.
I was so glad to have been able to attend his 80th birthday party.

I would like to wish long life to Sylvia and all the family."

November 13, 2011

Michael Deane

New York

"I met Karl 34 years ago when we went to China together and I think I've been a member of the extended Manheim family ever since. Both Jerry and Sylvia made a point of welcoming me when I moved to LA in 1994 and I shall be eternally grateful for their extended kindness.

Part of it was the shared common experience. My father too was a victim of the blacklist and McCarthyism. I know it weighed heavily on both my parents and to their credit they rejected the offers to turn on their friends. My father and Sylvia's brother Bill were friends and that connection was how I was able to go to China in the first place.

I also loved to go down that dark path known as an extended conversation/discussion/argument with Jerry which of course I never won. And I laughed at his jokes. Being particularly incompetent in that areas myself--if you knew my father you'd know it runs in the family--I always laughed, regardless of how silly. And the priest on the plane doing a cross word puzzle still gets me.

I have also occasionally cadged his "I was born right the first time" though I've always given credit. It was far too perfect and succinct to come from me.

My best to the entire family and especially to Sylvia.

Michael"

November 8, 2011

Diana Fine Luks

Chicago, Los Angeles, New York, Philadelphia

"I just realized that Jerry and my mother were born the same year and passed the same year 2 months apart ! That is where the similarity remains.Jerry and Sylvia have been my alter - parents for about 25 years now. I was always fascinated by their personalities and ability to make me welcome from day one. They were the Arty, Intellectual , world loving types I thought I was supposed to have for parents. I think I must have been separated at birth from them ! Jerry , I will never lose the feeling of your warm , loving hugs. May your Spirit endure for all who knew you. I will miss you but I look forward to being with Sylvia, your loving, warm hearted wife soon. Bravo for guiding and giving to such a wonderful family."

November 7, 2011

Elinor Epstein

Glenview, Il

"Jerry-the alpha male in the family as the first grandson to Fronie, and nephew to Anne and Fanny. He was my "big brother" cousin who taught me to dance-whose picture I would show off to friends because he was so handsome.
But Jerry could be frustrating too. My cautionary tale to my children and grandchildren was: When I was at the U of Illinois, Jerry was there as well. I thought I was going to be a math major, but when I got to analytical geometry, I was lost. I called Jerry and told him I was failing, and was going to drop the course. He told me he would help me-not to worry. Well, I failed every test, couldn't do the homework, and was getting desperate. At last,the night before the final exam, Jerry sat down with me and explained analytical geometry. What a teacher! I got a B on the final-but a D in the course. Needless to say, I was not a math major anymore. But Jerry sure was a good teacher. My kids heard the story, and the caution-if you're lost in a course, get help immediately, or DROP the course.
Our family is diminshed by his death-but his legacy lives on in his children and grandchildren. Cuz elinor"

November 7, 2011

Adie Bard

Mexico City

"Jerry and my mom, Anita Bard, went to Senn High School in Chicago together around 1940. Jerry became part of my life decadaes later, when Lisa and I met at Poly High. He was the coolest friend's dad of all time, making us laugh and getting us to like math. As time went by Jerry and I developed a friendship of our own. He loved to hear first hand my stories about Mexico, my adopted country. He visited us in the 1990's and we shlepped him to pyramids, museums and taco stands, which he relished! Jerry always offered solid advice, free videos and the world's best kumquat jam. He had the most original business card I have ever seen: Jerome H. Manheim, Cynic. In recent years he and Sylvia came to all my birthday parties in Long Beach, which always made me feel special. The mark of a great life is to be remembered. In our home, Jerry will be cited often and never forgotten. Our hearts go out to Sylvia, Karl, Lisa & Paul, Camryn and to those 3 "boys" Jerry could never kvell enough about. Love, Adie, Roberto, Justino, Bianca and Mauricio"

November 6, 2011

"Hallie" Elayne Heilveil

Los Angeles

"I think of Jerry as a reluctant but couragous captain sailing down the Rhine River on the Manheim barge. His presence will always be out there, quietly navigating the waters, holding the barge afloat with his dry wit, the sardonic glimmer in his eyes. What a rich journey he had, what knowledge he accrued and what a grand captain he was. I feel privileged to have shared a moment of that journey. He remains in my heart.

My love and condolence to Sylvia and the family. "Hallie""

November 6, 2011

Josh & Barbara Reese

Salem, OR

"Barb & I are so sad to lose such a good friend. Jerry was learned, talented, kind, generous, and always full of the old nick. A complete human, a mensch. We always looked forward to "Jeritos" in Skamania!

We will miss him dearly and remember him always. Our sincerest condolences to Sylvia and family.
Love, Josh & Barb Reese"

November 5, 2011

Phoebe Quillian Talent

Oregon

"I knew you for 37 years and over that time you were always thoughtful and generous to me. I liked our discussions over vitamins and my other herbal remedies although you never convinced me to give them up. And politics, because I always learned more. My many times at your home from LB to Skamania were always filled with interesting conversations and I always felt sparked, engaged, and alive. I left knowing I was cared about and loyal to your family. Your family has been a major part in my life and my mothers. We have been accepted and welcomed. I am so glad you stopped here on the way up this summer because once more I felt the Manheim connection and warmth. You married well Jerry and created quite a notable family, a successful life. Living seems to be also about learning to let go of the past but those days around the dinner table filled with activity and conversation will always be my treasure with your voice imbedded in my memory. Thank you."

November 4, 2011

Cousine Arielle, Cousine Rachel

Brussels, Belgium

"Dear, dear family,

Today is the day, Jerry will be among you, among us.
With is humour and tenderness, his lively spirit and his jokes, his nice smile and his joy, his smart and acurate look on the world.

Dear Jerry, I am so happy to have discover , 35 years ago, this californian, hippie, controversal, politicaly engaged, funny family whom you where the leader.
I'll miss the great man you are.

May your new aventures be as impredictable and fulfulling than those you leave.

My warmest kisses to Sylvia and the whole family."

November 4, 2011

Patricia RRAPI

Paris, France

"Oh Jerry, I am happy I got the chance to meet a wonderful person like you. Yoy will always be in my heart. All my love to Manheim Family November 4, 2011 0 0 78.250.30.183 Larry Jacobson Seattle, WA LMJ-safe@comcast.net My Dear Jerry (and family):
This world will not be the same without your personality, though I have no doubt your wit, your commentary, and your deep caring will live on as a light for us all. Of course you would have argued that there is no spirit after death, but will you let us know in case you were mistaken? I will miss your making arguments to show us how much you cared. We will honor your memory...
Thank you so much My Dear Friend,
With Love, Larry, Kyla, Asher"

November 3, 2011

Ruth, Rick and Gabby Meghiddo

Long Beach

"Dear Jerry,

Ruth remembers discussing with you about truth, half-trues and lies.
Gabby remembers discussing with you about science at breakfast time.
And I remember our recent discussion about the expansion of the universe.

The three of us are missing you so much...

The Meghiddos"

November 2, 2011

Jason Kravits

NY

"The first time I met Jerry, only a decade or so ago, he treated me like I was a member of his family. It made me feel special. Then I realized he treated EVERYONE like family. He made EVERYONE feel special. What a wonderful gift to those who had the good fortune of making his acquaintance. Thanks, Jerry"

November 1, 2011

Richard H

Los Angeles, CA

"He had a quiet, wry wit that made me think he knew something I only pretended to know. Such a sweet man, surrounded by so much love."

November 1, 2011

Rozz Rusinow

West Caldwell, New Jersey

"Jerry was a man I'll never forget - funny, warm, serious, earnest, political, always ready to lend a helping hand, larger than life, a good friend. He will leave lasting tracks in the minds of all who knew him.
In forever memory, Rozz Rusinow "

November 1, 2011

Rebecca Ewing

Skamania

"I had the privilege to spend time with Jerry in Skamania this summer. He was an amazing man, and gave me many new insights and perspectives on this complicated and beautiful world. Thank you Jerry and the entire Manheim family for making humanity better."

November 1, 2011

Judy Goldwater

Skamania

"Dear Jerry,
You were my dear and tender friend; always a smile when I visited and a deep curiosity as to how my life was going. So much humor, passion for life and all the questions there are to ask...you always made me smile and I will miss you so very much...I remember coming over to visit† you and Sylvia with my flute, to just "hang" out and playing music for hours while Sylvia talked on the phone, or was cooking up something amazing in the kitchen, you were reading or just listening to the music. Cameron would pop in and out with her beautiful smile and passion.

Thank you for your friendship, you will continue to have a† profound effect in my life and there will always be a special part of my heart saved just for you.

Love,
Judy"

November 1, 2011

Ingrid Aall

"Jerry was a great communicator. He loved people, family first, then friends, then everyone.
Jerry and I frequently discussed the meaning of life and death. As a scientist he never waivered in his commitment to the rational mind. These intense discussions were always stimulating and often ended with us agreeing to disagree.
On October 10th Jerry sent me a copy of an article that he said changed his life. I would like to share the following from the article.
ì Happiness comes and goes and we know what makes us happy and if we can, we should do those things. There is no value in misery.î

Those of us who are still alive should take these words to heart and celebrate his wisdom. Jerryís life taught us all the joy of friendship. Let us remember that true friends forever continue to live on in our memory.

Ingrid Aall"

November 1, 2011

Mary Edith Abu-Saba

"I will always cherish the long relationship I have had with Jerry and Sylvia, and all the family. I've watch all of us grow older...known you since 1967 (I think) when we moved to Peoria. We had met Jerry in Lewisburg, Pa, when he was visiting Donna and Charles Pinter...and he went back to Bradley with Elias' resume for applying for a teaching position in the Civil Engineering department.

We shared so many of the ups and downs of the college political life together...and kept following each other on our various moves to other places.

Big discussions about the Arabs and the Israelis....and lots of just plain wonderful "Being Together."!!

I am grateful for his life, and also the life of each of you in this amazing family...and for the lovely times we have spent together.

My heart is with you...and I send all of my love to each of you.

Mary Edith"

November 1, 2011

Patricia Ebert

"Oh Jerry you will be so missed. The memories of that sharp wit, the political commentaries, your endless letter writing and energy. So much love and happiness shared with you and your family .. I am blessed to have been a part of your life. My tears and prayers are there for all of you."

November 1, 2011

Josiane, Adolphe

"Jerry Ètait pour nous un cousin plein de charme auquel nous pensions toujours avec beaucoup d'affection et une grande tendresse pour son cÙtÈ tellement juvÈnile lors de la dÈgustation de ses confitures ou autres prÈparations fromagères. Ne plus le savoir parmi nous est une grande peine que nous partageons avec la vÙtre ,ses enfants et surtout Sylvia à qui nous souhaitons beaucoup de courage."

November 1, 2011

Aida Porteneuve

"Jerry will surely be missed.....his warm, welcoming smile, his great sense of humour, open mindedness and poitical wisdom!

May his soul rest in peace."

November 1, 2011

Inge Johnson

"Thank you for the pictures and the lovely song. My prayers and thoughts are with your family."

November 1, 2011